Who are your resources? I like John Rosemond and Dr. James Dobson. I like Dr. Leman's books, but haven't read any of his parenting books...I have a feeling I would like him as well.
I subscribe to John Rosemond's column via email. I think last week's column (1/4) is worth a read for all of you parents of school age and younger children. His style is very common-sensicle and makes sense to me.
Here's the link to his site and specifically to last week's column (this one may not work too much longer as the new one should be posted shortly. I'll try to update when he does.